Start with the brush, before the coat becomes a project
Put a soft brush and a few treats by the sofa before the puppy arrives. Touch a shoulder, brush one small patch, reward the calm pause, and stop. The goal is a dog who knows that grooming can be quiet and predictable.[1][2]
The Bichon Frise is a companion breed with a full, curly coat. A gentle handling habit helps with the feet, ears, and legs later on. You are teaching cooperation, not trying to finish every bit of grooming on day one.[1][2]
Make the day easy to read
New dogs learn a home through repetition. Take the puppy out after waking, eating, playing, and resting. Use the same quiet route, then come back in without turning every toilet trip into a party.[3][2]
Keep the first week smaller than you think it needs to be. A few calm introductions, a nap, a meal, and a short brush give you more useful information than a crowded social calendar.[3]
Teach the skills you will use every day
A wait at the door, a turn toward you on the leash, and a settle on a mat fit easily into normal life. Reward-based teaching tells the dog which choice earns something good. AVSAB's position puts reward-based methods at the center of both learning and behavior support.[2]
Ask everyone in the home to use the same words and reward the same calm behavior. A Bichon can learn a great deal from small moments, while mixed messages make the first few months harder than they need to be.[1][2]
A useful first-week order
- Set up the brush, leash, mat, food area, and rest space.
- Repeat a simple out-and-back toilet routine.
- Practice one short, reward-based grooming session each day.
- Introduce people and places in calm, manageable pieces.

A non-slip mat, brush and comb make one short, calm grooming practice easy to repeat, helping coat care become part of the ordinary day.[1][2]
A good first dog for someone who enjoys gentle practice
Let the routine grow with the dog
A Bichon Frise does well when the brush, the walk, and the rest period all become familiar. Keep the first days simple, reward calm choices, and add the next skill when the dog is ready.[1][2]
Common questions
Should I wait until the coat is long before teaching grooming?
Start gently from the beginning. Brief, rewarded handling helps a puppy learn that brushing and touching the feet can feel safe and ordinary.[2]
What training should come first?
Choose skills you will use every day, such as waiting at a door, walking with you, and resting on a mat. Reward the behavior you want to see again.[2]
Sources
Sources used in this article
- [1]FCI Standard No. 215: Bichon FriseFédération Cynologique Internationale
- [2]Position Statement on Humane Dog TrainingAmerican Veterinary Society of Animal Behavior